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3 Traits Men Look For In Women

3 Traits Men Look For In Women

Feeling frustrated that there's no wedding yet? Read some tried and true tips that can make or break you when it comes to finding and holding on to love.


Nothing is more attractive to a man than a woman who has a strong head on her shoulders and can take care of herself. I'm not suggesting that you need to be cold, hardcore or emotionally detached from your relationship, but you should be able to take care of yourself both financially and emotionally.

Here's a quick example:

A good friend of mine had been dating her boyfriend for about three months. She was at his house and feeling under the weather because she was sick with a cold, when his brother stopped by to say hi. She popped out for a second to say hi but immediately went back into his bedroom to rest.

He walked in and said to her, ''Are you sure your okay by yourself?''

She said to him confidently, ''If I need anything, I'll let you know. ''

About half an hour later, once his brother had left, he came back into the bedroom and said to her, ''You know, it was really cool that you didn`t give me a hard time about that.''

Let's put it this way, wouldn't you want a man that`s strong an independent to be your boyfriend? Guys are no different.



For most guys, it's super important that they`re not the only ones that like you. His friends and family are the most important people in his life, so it should be important to you to make a sincere and heartfelt effort to get to know them and put your best foot forward.

The first time a good friend of mine met her boyfriend's family, his mother talked her ear off for almost an hour about how to make the perfect Thanksgiving turkey. After the conversation was over, her boyfriend pulled her aside and said, ''I'm sorry about that. Sometimes my Mom thinks she's Martha Stewart. '' And my friend, being the trooper that she is, smiled back at him and replied, ''She's cool. ''


A Sense of Humor

One of the most important ingredients to any successful date or relationship is the ability to share laughs together. It`s a great indicator of how much fun you're having, which is a great indicator of whether or not the person you're with is a good match for you. It also shows your significant other that you're easy going, secure with yourself and less likely to freak out for no good reason.

And let's face it: life can throw you so many curve balls and you have to choose how to deal with you.

Case in point:

Sara and Tomas had been dating for about a year. Tomas had an awful day at work, so he needed to decompress and cheer up. He went over to Sara's house. She suggested they go out for dinner and that they walk there. In the middle of their walk, it started pouring rain like crazy. The two of them ran for cover under the awning of a store. As they were watching the rain pour down, Tomas said,''Well, this is actually kind of relaxing,'' and before he could even finish his sentence, they heard the loud crash of thunder and the store's alarm immediately went off, completely ruining the moment. The two looked at each other and started laughing uncontrollably. 



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